Would you refuse to see a doctor if you’d broken your arm?
Would you instead decide to take matters into your own hands, protect your arm, hoping for the best? Of course not, seeing a physician is a Continue reading →
Over the years clients have ‘entertained’ me with their efforts to avoid anything ’that triggers feelings of loss of their Beloved. Below is a sampling of my ‘favorite’ and my responses. A client’s avoidance list, as Continue reading →
Many family members, when thinking about the holiday season, tell me ‘I just want to take a pill and sleep through them!’ And if that‘s not possible, survivors of loss, at the very least, want to run Continue reading →
Grief is very energy consuming. You are tired for much of your day. The holidays put additional demands on your already lowered energy! Reduce your expectations of what you must do. Claim your Continue reading →
Keeping busy – I mean a-ma-zing-ly busy – is one of several options survivors of loss use to avoid thinking and talking about IT – their enormously pain-filled and devastating loss.
Most teenagers disdain crying, though some will cop to using tears to get their own way when possible. Even more than adults, teens fight for control because to genuinely ‘lose it’ Continue reading →
Prince Harry and his American bride of one year, Meghan Markle, will soon be announcing the birth of theirfirst royal baby. Why does this matter? Because such a wonderful event could never have happened if Prince Continue reading →